Women in Islam
Seyedeh Dr. Nahid Angha
An excerpt from the journal Sufism: An Inquiry
In the west, the common picture of a Muslim
woman is the stereotype of a woman hidden behind a veil, a voiceless,
silent figure, bereft of rights. It is a picture familiar to all of us, in
large part because this is invariably how the western media portrays women
in Islam.
Islam covers many lands with many diverse
cultures. From the borders of Arabia to the coasts of Africa, from Bosnia
to Indonesia, large groups of people practice Islam. Islam is growing in
European and American countries. Each one of these Islamic nations has its
own distinct culture; there is a great diversity of cultures within Islam.
One cannot bring all these cultures, political systems, national heritage,
belief systems, geographical locations, historical backgrounds, and the
peoples who embody them under one uniform category or think of them as one
system. Islam is practiced in each nation according to those nations
characteristics. And nations are, by existing as nations, distinct and
different from one another. No two cultures are alike.
Conceptual Issues
Nations in the Middle East, among many
other Muslim countries, have long been notorious for their unequal
treatment of women especially among the Western nations. Catching a
glimpse of a special on Middle Eastern women while channel surfing or
reading from the Middle Eastern chapter in history books is the furthest
most people have gone to research the role of women in Islam. Images of
submissive, timid women covered in black veils are there to be found --
and, with such a unanimity of popular information, what point could there
be in understanding the subject more thoroughly? What I will provide here
is just an outline, a brief summary, as Islam is, in fact, more than just
a name, a religion, a social movement. It is recognizing the essence of
Divine permeating all there is; it is timeless, priceless, beyond
cultures, traditions, and all human limitations. There are few scholars
who have described women in Islam without prejudice or some inclination
towards either side of the extreme. In order to understand the role of
women in Islam and to learn how the rules of Islam apply to them, we need
to become familiar with Islam, apart from politics practiced in Muslim
nations, and to examine the place of women in the pre-Islamic era, the
rules and regulations of Islam, and the cultural backgrounds of the
countries that are the base of our research, and finally to compare the
position of women in the Muslim world with the position of women in
western cultures.
Position of Women Before the Advent of
Islam
Islam was born in the Arabia Peninsula, now
Saudi Arabia, in the seventh century AD. The pre-Islamic era dates back to
more than 1400 years ago. Many cultures, nations and countries, other than
Arabia, existed during that time. Let's begin with a review on the Arabian
culture. In that era, in the tribal culture of Arabs, women were not equal
to men with respect to many social and personal conditions and systems,
such as marriage, inheritance or education, among other areas. Women did
not have businesses, own property, or have independent legal rights. Even
though we read about Khadijeh (who later became a wife of the Prophet (swa),
and the first Muslim woman) who owned her own business, which is an
indication that there are always exceptions in any recorded history. In
Arabia, female infants were often abandoned or buried alive; and the
practice of polygamy was common. The position of women, in countries other
than Arabia, in the 7th century, was not much different. In Europe, it was
not until the turn of the century (13 centuries later) that French women
became legally able to sell property without the permission of their
husbands. In many nations, sons would inherit the name, wealth and
position of the family and daughters were hoped to marry rich. In many
western or eastern countries, women could not chose their husbands, and,
widows were expected to mourn for their husbands until the end of their
lives (still practiced in some countries).
Standards Set by Islam
One cannot emphasize enough the influence
of the teachings of the Prophet (swa) and the verses of the Qur'an upon
the advancement of civilization. In the history of humankind, none worked
so much to protect human rights, especially women's, with such integrity,
strength, strategic genius, beauty and divinity, or to honor humanity, by
freeing it from the chains of prejudice, manipulations, personal and
social injustice. His teachings regarding education, social and political
rights, property rights, and ultimately human rights, are among the most
valuable chapter in the book of civilization. Education: "The pursuit
of knowledge is a duty of every Muslim, man and woman", said the
Prophet (swa). With this instruction it became a religious duty of Muslims
to educate themselves, their families, and their societies. Education and
learning became a religious duty, no Muslim could prevent another human
being from the pursuit of knowledge. Gender or race, culture or tradition
could not become the cause for prohibiting a person from educating one's
self. Pursuit of knowledge became a religious law, therefore necessary to
attain. With such instruction, the Prophet (swa) not only created an equal
right to education, but also opened the door to a better understanding.
Social and Political Rights
"Paradise lies under the feet of
mothers", announced the Prophet (swa). With this instruction, a
Divine law, it became a religious responsibility, a praiseworthy act, to
respect and honor women. "Men are support for women,"
"Among the praiseworthy acts to Allah is to treat your mother with
honor and respect," "Be just among your children, daughters and
sons, provide them good education and proper upbringing." Narrated
from the Prophet (swa). With these Divine laws, it became religious duty
for every Muslim, male or female, to honor women, treat sons and daughters
justly, and for male to provide support, not obstacles, for women and
their achievements.
There are many recorded historical
references that at the beginning of Islam, at the time of the Prophet (swa),
Muslim men or women chose to join the Prophet's army to fight against his
enemies, leading wars after his passing. There are also recorded in the
history of Islam that men and women, equally, would take bayat (agreement)
with the Prophet, voting and choosing him as a political leader. Such
positions, rights and equality among all were the result of the support
and the teachings of the Prophet (swa). Women could take part in social,
political, and military affairs. The result of his teachings was not only
promoted human rights but also encouraging individuals to stand for their
own rights.
Fatima, daughter of the Prophet (swa), was
well educated and highly respected. It is said that whenever Fatima
entered the room, the Prophet would stand and give his seat to her. Her
sacrifices to protect and support human rights were among the most
praiseworthy acts.
Property Rights
Under the laws of Islam, women have
obtained the right to sell and buy properties, own business, take legal
actions, vote, and participate in political affairs. Inheritance law
was/is also among the most important rights. According to Islam, a woman
inherits, half the share of her brother. At the same time a daughter, can
chose but has no the obligation to support her parents or children, while
her brother does. A man, a brother, has the obligation, by the rules of
Islam, to support his mother, wife, children, sisters, and the children of
his sisters if necessary. If a woman, a mother, a sister did not have the
wealth or the desire to support her children, it would become the duty of
her brother to support them. The Prophet (swa) has introduced the rules
and the laws for humanity, some honor the rules and some chose not to.
Under Islamic law, women also have control not only over their property
but also dowry claims. Once she is married, she may demand her dowry from
her husband at any time, and in the case of divorce, she would receive her
share of the property.
Marriage and the Right to Divorce
According to the laws of Islam a man and a
woman have the right to choose their partner and they should not be forced
into marriage. Fatima, the Prophet's daughter was educated, beautiful and
respectful. It is narrated that when Amir al momenin Ali asked for
Fatima's hand in marriage Prophet (swa) did not respond to Ali until he
asked Fatima for her decision. Divorce is permitted in Islam under
specific terms and conditions. According to the laws of Islam one may end
a marriage by divorce if there is a definite cause for such an action.
Polygamy is a tradition practiced in many
cultures, yet Islam restricted it by setting regulations. These
regulations are very severe, and a very few can practice it. Quran (IV:3)
reads: "If you feel that you will be able to deal justly with
orphans, marry the women of your choice one, two, three, or four. But if
you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with them, then marry
only one." The verse emphasize being just not only to the women but
also to their children, who would, otherwise, remain fatherless after
their mothers became widowed -- a frequent occurrence during the early
centuries of Islam, when men were often killed in wars. "Deal
justly" refers to equal treatment, not only emotionally but also
financially. The particular historical context of polygamy in Islam
followed one of the harshest wars, where many men were killed, leaving a
multitude of women widowed, fatherless, and without support. Also a Muslim
man cannot marry a second wife without the permission of the first wife.
With all these restricted regulations, according to the Islamic law,
polygamy is possible but rare in practice.
Post Islamic Expectations Set by
Political Entities
A few centuries after the Prophet (swa)
many of these rules changed into cultural, national, or political
regulations.
Islam entered different cultures and each
culture embraced it according to its own traditions. Even in its homeland,
rules and regulations changed according to the political rulers and the
traditional culture of the land within one or two centuries after the
passing of the Prophet (swa). Let us examine a few of these changes:
Prophet had said (Quran, XXIV:30, 31): "Tell believing men that they
should lower their gaze and guard their modesty, that will make for
greater purity for them and say to the believing women to lower their gaze
and guard their modesty and they should not display their beauty and
ornaments...." In the course of time, this law changed into the rule
that women should wear veils, covering themselves from head to toe. Being
modest changed into a dress code. Yet this dress code was not applied to
the "believing men", and did not become a cause for their social
or economical oppressions. Women, who at the beginning of Islam, were
leading armies and making political decisions, were now, a few centuries
later, expected to sit separately from men in mosques and in prayer
ceremonies. A similar situation also obtain in non-Islamic countries. For
example a century ago, when the World Anti-Slavery Association met in
England, the women delegates were refused seats. They had to sit silently
behind the curtain in the balcony. That, of course, led to Seneca Falls
Convention that eventually gained a few rights for women such as becoming
able to sell properties, the right to education, and the like. The Prophet
instructed that women have the right to own property, to choose their own
partners, and have equal rights to education. In accordance with
prevailing culture, these rights became transformed into the duties of
women to take care of children and remain in the house. This is not all
that different than a century ago in America where women were expected the
duties of "Republican Motherhood," which did not take them
beyond the household sphere.
To justify the prejudice held against
women, we can blame a religion, we can blame a culture, we can blame a
system, and we can even blame women themselves. Yet these superficial
"making you feel better" justifications will not remove the
responsibility from generations of humanity. While it is true that the
media misleads people, political leaders mislead people, and superficial
ideology misleads people -- yet people remain in a state of being misled.
The guilt of the oppressor is not lesser that the guilt of the oppressed,
said the Prophet.
Islam is a religion where the standard for
superiority is the level of ones knowledge, where human being was created
in the best figure, and thus where advancing knowledge is a duty.
According to Islam, the human being has the potentiality to ascend to the
level of the Divine, knowledge of the law of the existence is the right of
every human being.
Islam is a religion where your temple is
not a building but your heart; your preacher is not a priest but your
intellect; and if your religion is founded upon mere imitation, you are a
blasphemer. In Islam, ignorance is an unforgivable sin, so is your evasion
of responsibility for yourself as well as towards all the members of the
living world, past and present. It is incorrect to blame such Islam for
the shortcomings of its followers, which are the failings of most of
mankind. A religion that is centered on the rights of human being, and
sets both men and women free from the chains of bondage should not be used
in propaganda for the sake of condemnation.
It is not Muslim women as such, but women
everywhere who have been imprisoned by prejudice and cruelty. This form of
prejudice that goes beyond simple racial or national boundaries, is sexual
in nature. Whether women are constantly being held to an impossible
standard, or subject to discrimination solely based on the fact that they
are not equal to men, they are, by far, the group most affected by this
form of prejudice. Depending on the society women may be seen as having
the wrong weight, the wrong height, the wrong level of intelligence, or
the wrong religion. We can conclude that women have yet to be welcomed
with open arms into countries that they have been a part of from the
beginning. True equality becomes a characteristic of Utopia and seems
almost impossible to achieve in the society in which we live in. The
question that remains is one of personal morals. Do we, as small pieces of
society, have the capacity to interlock and form a beautiful mosaic? I
have to say it takes more than just a few to fulfill a dream that is
centuries old.
Special thanks to Sahar Kianfar for
providing much of the above information and ideas.
Source: Sufi Women Organization
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