Religious Addiction:
Inner Peace Or Inner Turmoil?
Uzma Mazhar
Religious beliefs serve an important
function in the daily lives and attitudes of most of us. Especially in
today’s often chaotic and unpredictable world, a sincere faith in the
power of God and adherence to religious rituals can give us better moral
guidance, more emotional stability, and valuable serenity. Religion helps
people to be centered and grounded.
However, a person’s fervent religious
practices can signify other, darker aspects of his or her mental health.
For example, if someone’s faith is used to mask or avoid psychological
problems, or if their religious inclinations are taken to extremes, there
is an excellent possibility that the person is suffering from a
psychiatric disorder. Often
it is a way to cover their own pathology, hiding it from others or
accusing others for being it's cause. This can be compared with Dual
Diagnosis in Alcoholism, ie: sometimes when a person deals with their
alcoholism and quits drinking, only then does their underlying psychiatric
pathology become apparent. Alcohol in this situation was used to
self-medicate.
One term used to describe such a case is
“hyper-religiosity.” A “hyper” condition of any sort—e.g.
hyperactivity, hyperglycemia, etc.—simply means too much of something.
In the case of religious beliefs, the question of having too much becomes
a factor when the religion starts adversely affecting people’s social
behavior, their ability to function rationally, and even their own
physical health.
Being very religious is not by any means an
absolute indication of bipolar or manic or depressive behavior; on the contrary, a
healthy approach to religious rituals is vital for the comfort and
well-being of countless people. So it’s a highly sensitive issue to
question someone’s beliefs or practices. Nevertheless, anything taken too far can do more harm than
good.
Evaluating And Assessing
Hyper-Religiosity
If you know someone who is extremely
religious, consider their history:
Have they always been that way?
Does their zeal represent a sudden personality change?
Do the religious beliefs provide peace and personal contentment?
Has the person become belligerent and defensive?
Are they gentle in their speech or harsh, argumentative and
self-righteous?
Have they become intolerant of other points of view?
Have people started avoiding them?
Has their quality of life improved or deteriorated?
How their religious attitudes affect people
can represent an infinite variety of causes and motivations, and the
reasons behind those causes can explain a great deal about the
individual’s psychological profile and mental stability. It’s not
enough to simply say, “His religion makes him feel good,” because
there are many troubled people who find similar peace and strength through
negative stimuli as well, such as alcohol.
Religion, like alcoholism, can be a crutch,
and it can be an addiction. Just as with alcohol, religion may be used to
hide other problems. Addiction is defined as the abuse of a substance to cover up the
underlying disease or discomfort. Religion can be viewed as an
addiction if it is used as a cover up for unresolved issues of shame,
anger and authority. When you take away the superficial
layers of the drinking or the religion, the underlying pathology is
revealed.
Knowing what lies underneath that veneer of
religion is critical to understanding the hyper-religious person’s
behavior. Therefore, it helps to know what brought about the change in
attitude when someone’s conspicuous preoccupation with religious belief
and ritual takes on an extreme, consuming new importance in their lives.
A suddenly increased interest in God and
religion is often triggered by a trauma or severe anxiety, and those may
come in many forms:
- Death of a loved one
- A break in a relationship
- Serious illness or accident
- Personal or financial loss
- Incarceration
When people’s security in themselves is
threatened, for whatever reason, they often turn to God. Such a
reaction is understandable: a confused, frightened individual who feels
helpless will naturally reach out for a source of comfort and solace.
Also, a frequent catalyst for triggering hyper-religious behavior may be a
latent psychiatric disorder, such as depression.
Regardless
of the reason why a person chooses to pursue religion, at what level does
healthy, normal religious belief become abnormal?
Often the personality change is subtle.
Eventually, though, hyper-religious behavior will manifest itself in
obvious and disconcerting ways, such as:
Loss of Objectivity
Their ability to reason logically
can become impaired. An inability to think, doubt, or question
religious information and/or authority; and unwillingness
to understand the opinions and interpretations of others. A concrete
and rigid thinking style develops that does not allow for consideration of
extenuating circumstances in a person's life.
Black/white, good/bad, either/or
simplistic thinking: one way or the other with very little room for
grey areas. A tendency toward magical thinking that God will fix you/
do it all, without serious work on your part. Confusion
and doubts lead to mental,
physical or emotional breakdown. They
develop a fear-based
belief system.. believing/following a religion out of fear, not
understanding and love. They
also tend to have a shame-based belief system that they are not good
enough or are not doing it right. They believe in a
punishing and angry God.
Reactivity: Anger and Defensiveness
If sincere faith in God is supposed
to bring peace and contentment, a religious person who is paranoid and
confrontational about it may have a larger mental problem. They
tend to have increased conflict and argumentation with science,
medicine, and education. They tend to become argumentative and
defensive in dialog. They have a limited ability to explain their
beliefs. Since their belief system about themselves and the world is
fear-based, they seldom understand religion, but follow it out of a
dependent need for strength and power. Force is their farce.
Judgmental
and Critical
Hyper-religiosity may be revealed in
someone as unusual self-importance, as if that person were much closer to
God, making others around him seem inferior. They develop an uncompromising judgmental
attitudes, with a readiness to find fault or evil out there. An attitude of
self-righteousness or
superiority: "we versus the world," including the denial of
one's human-ness. They tend to
be blind to their own behaviors, denying their projections on to the idol
'god' they have created.
Obsessive and Compulsive Behavior
Ritual is part of religion, and as
such is neither good nor bad. However, when it disrupts normal activities
it is unhealthy—as in being unable to function without repeated readings
of the same passages, or unusually frequent rituals. Scrupulously rigid
and obsessive adherence
to rules, codes of ethics, or guidelines. Compulsive
rituals or obsessive praying, quoting scriptures
and excessive fasting often
accompany the change in thinking patterns. Giving up sleeping or
eating to pray or meditate. Again,
prayer and meditation are important aspects of faith, but not to the point
of jeopardizing a person’s health or relationships.
Isolation
Isolation and breakdown of relationships often follows. Progressive detachment from
work and relationships is noticeable as they spend more time proselytizing
their message. Manipulating scripture or texts, feeling
specially chosen, claiming to receive special messages from God, they
move further and further away from the mainstream of social contacts.
Breakdown
In severe cases they may also develop some of the following patterns:
Psychosomatic illness: back pains,
sleeplessness, headaches, hypertension, etc.
Maintaining a religious
"high", trance-like state, keeping a happy face (or the
belief that one should...)
Denial of any personal problems
When behavior borders on manic or pathological, the hyper-religious
person may even start hallucinating, ie: hearing voices or seeing images,
or possibly “talking to God.”
By then, it’s clearly evident something is
wrong.
If you know someone whose interest in
religion has suddenly (or even gradually) reached a point of
fixation—when their regular lives are negatively affected—you need to
understand what’s motivating their behavior. The problem could go away,
but it could also get worse.
The ultimate temptation of the believer is
to assume that his or her way to God is the best or only way for others.
The particular Way to God becomes what is adored, not the ineffable and
incomprehensible Mystery to which we give the name of God.
In essence they become addicted to their faith.
It becomes a means of escape. It is no
longer a living BY faith; with understanding, hope and growing in unconditional love.
Instead of love of God softening their lives, it makes them harsh, rigid
and limited.
Uzma Mazhar
© 2000
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