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Homosexuality

Question: 
After looking at your bio sheet, I noticed that you have worked with adolescents. I'm 18, and something has been on my mind for years. I am seeking advice as to what I should do. I am not suffering from any mental illness, or any depression. I'm a homosexual. You are a muslim and a psychiatric expert, and I want you to e-mail me as a muslim sister and an expert.  Be honest with me.  I know that APA has eliminated homosexuality as a "mental illness", but it is an abnormality that has psychological roots nevertheless.  What do you think about homosexuality?  Do you think it is a choice?  Should homosexuals, like me, be condemned for practicing our sexuality?  I know that you are not an Islamic scholar, but I'm sure you've dealt with homosexuality in your field.  Do your beliefs conflict with what you have learned?  Thank you very much for reading this.

 

Response:
I don't think there is any categorically clear answer to your question. If you look at it from the religious perspective only, all religions have a similar position. If you look at it only from the scientific perspective.. there are still no clear answers as to homosexuality being genetic or learned. 

As far as homosexuals being condemned.. that is abusive and judgmental and should not be encouraged.  Whether they are living a 'right' or 'wrong' lifestyle, that is not for me to judge.

Uzma Mazhar MS; MA