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Rights & Responsibilities toward Relatives

Quran

Sura: 2, Ayat: 83.
When We made a covenant with the children of Israel: You serve none but Allah. Show kindness to your parents, to your kinsfolk, to the orphans, and to the destitute. Exhort men to righteousness. Attend to your prayers and pay the alms-tax. But you all turned your backs except a few, and gave no heed.

Sura: 2, Ayat: 177.
Righteousness does not consist in whether you face towards the east or the west. The righteous man is he who believes in Allah and the Last Day, in the angels and the Book and the prophets; who for the love of Allah gives his wealth to his kinsfolk, to the orphans, to the needy, to the wayfarers and to the beggars, and for the redemption of captives; who attends to his prayers and pays the alms-tax; who is true to his promises and steadfast in trial and adversity and in times of war.
Such are the true believers; such are the God-fearing.

Sura: 2, Ayat: 180.
It is decreed that when death approaches, those of you that leave wealth shall bequeath it equitably to parents and kindred. This is a duty incumbent on the righteous.

Sura: 2, Ayat: 215.
They will ask you about alms-giving, Say: 'Whatever you bestow in charity must go to your parents and to your kinsfolk, to the orphan and to the poor man and to the wayfarer. Allah is aware of whatever good you do.'

Sura: 4, Ayat: 1.
Men, have fear of your Lord, who created you from a single soul. From that soul He created its mate, and through them He bestrewed the earth with countless men and women. Fear Allah, in whose name you plead with one another, and honour the mothers who bore you. Allah is ever watching over you.

Sura: 4, Ayat: 8.
If relatives, orphans, or needy men are present at the division of an inheritance, give them, too, a share of it, and speak to them in kind words.

Sura: 4, Ayat: 36.
Serve Allah and associate none with Him. Show kindness to your parents and your kindred, to the orphans and to the needy, to your near and distant neighbours, to your fellow-travellers, to the wayfarers, and to the slaves whom you own. Allah does not love arrogant and boastful men.

Sura: 4, Ayat: 135.
0 you who believe! Stand out firmly for justice, as witnesses to God, even as against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, and whether it be (against) rich or poor: For God can best protect both. Follow not the lusts (of your hearts), lest you swerve, and if you distort (justice) or decline to do justice, verily God is well-acquainted with all that you do.

Sura: 6, Ayat: 151-152.
Say: 'Come, I will tell you what your Lord has made binding on you: ....... Speak justly, even if it affects your own kinsmen ..........

Sura: 8, Ayat: 41.
And know that out of all the booty that you may acquire (in war), a fifth share is assigned to God, - and to the Apostle, and to near relatives, orphans, the needy, and the wayfarer, - if you do believe in God and in the revelation We sent down to Our Servant on the Day of Testing (battle of Badr), - the Day of the meeting of the two forces. For God has power over all things.

Sura: 8, Ayat: 74-75.
Those that have embraced the faith and migrated from their homes and fought for the cause of Allah, and those that have sheltered them and helped them - they are the true believers. They shall receive mercy and a generous provision.
Those that have since embraced the faith and fled their homes and fought together with you - they too are of you. And according to the Book of Allah, those who are bound by ties of blood are nearest to one another. Allah has knowledge of all things.

Sura: 9, Ayat: 113-114.
It is not for the Prophet or the believers to beg forgiveness for polytheists, even though they be near of kin, after it has become manifest that they are the people of the Fire. Ibrahim prayed for his father only to fulfill a promise he had made with him.
But when he realized he was an enemy of Allah, he disowned him. Surely Ibrahim was a compassionate and tender-hearted man.

Sura: 16, Ayat: 90.
Allah enjoins justice, kindness and charity to one's kindred, and forbids indecency, wickedness and oppression. He admonishes you so that you may take heed.

Sura: 17, Ayat: 26.
Give to the near of kin their due, and also to the destitute and to the way-farers. Do not squander (your substance) wastefully.

Sura: 24, Ayat: 22.
Let not the honourable and rich among you swear not to give to their kindred, the poor, and those who have emigrated for the cause of Allah.
Rather, let them pardon and forgive. Do you not wish Allah to forgive you?  He is Forgiving, Merciful.

Sura: 24, Ayat: 61.
It shall be no offence for the blind, the lame, the sick and yourselves to eat at your table. Nor shall it be an offence for you to eat in your houses and in the houses of your fathers, your mothers, your brothers, your sisters, your paternal uncles, your paternal aunts, your maternal uncles, your maternal aunts or in houses with the keys of which you are entrusted, or in those of your friends. It shall be equally lawful whether you eat together or apart.
When you enter houses, salute one another with a salutation from Allah, blessed and kind. Thus Allah makes clear to you His revelations so that you may understand.

Sura: 26, Ayat: 214-216.
Admonish your nearest kinsfolk and show kindness to the believers who follow you. If they disobey you, say: 'I am not accountable for what you do.'

Sura: 30, Ayat: 38.
Give their due to the near of kin, to the needy, and to the wayfarers. That is best for those who seek the Countenance of Allah; such men will surely prosper.

Sura: 33, Ayat: 6.
The Prophet has a greater claim on the faithful than their own selves. His wives are their mothers.
Blood relations are closer to one another in the Book of Allah than to other believers or muhajirs*, although you are permitted to do your friends a kindness. This is decreed in Allah's Book.
(*The emigrants to Madinah)

This is what Allah announces to true believers who do good works.

Sura: 42, Ayat: 23.
Say: 'For this I demand of you no recompense except the love of those near of kin. He that does a good deed We add to its goodness for him. He is Forgiving and Bountiful in His rewards.'

Sura: 58, Ayat: 22.
You shall find no believers in Allah and the Last Day on friendly terms with those who oppose Allah and His Apostle, even though they be their fathers, their sons, their brothers, or their kindred.  Allah has written the faith in their very hearts and strengthened them with a spirit of His own. He will admit them to gardens watered by running streams, where they shall dwell forever.
Allah is well pleased with them and they with Him. They are the party of Allah: and Allah's party shall surely triumph.

 

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