24 Safety Tips for Muslim
Women
Samana Siddiqui
As Muslims and their institutions become
targets of harassment in the wake of the September 11 terrorist attack,
Muslim women, especially those who dress Islamically, have become major
targets.
Reports of Muslim women being yelled at,
threatened, having their Hijabs pulled off and having guns pointed at them
have surfaced. It is necessary that the whole community rallies to defend
Muslim women. But sisters also have to take personal precautions when they
go outside. Like it or not, they will be targets.
Here are some safety tips for women:
1. Always be aware of your surroundings
This applies whether you are traveling alone or in groups. Don't just
focus inwardly on your thoughts if you are alone, or your friends if you
are together. Keep one eye out for your environment, looking out for
suspicious characters, possible danger, etc.
Also, don't assume that because your
area has been "safe" thus far, that it will continue to be so.
2. Travel in groups
"There is safety in numbers" is not just a cliche. It's true.
Make a point of travelling together with other sisters, whether it's on
public transportation, on campus, in cars, etc.
3. Change the route you normally travel by
If you've taken the same bus, train or highway to get to work or school,
change your route. Even if it takes you a little longer, your safety is
more important. By changing your route, you can avert possible attacks or
harassment from those who know your schedule, method and route of travel
well. Please note though that you should avoid short cuts that take you
through unfamiliar or unsafe areas.
4. Look confident
Walk with a straight posture and your arms swinging by your sides. Avoid
slouching or walking like a victim. This makes you an easy target for
attackers.
5. When riding by public transportation
choose the right seat
If you are riding by bus or train, do not sit on the window seat as you
may be "blocked in" by a potential assailant. Always select the
seat next to the aisle so that you can quickly leave if necessary.
If you are taking public transportation alone after peak hours, sit as
close to the driver as possible and/or choose the section of the bus/train
that is most crowded. Try to get a seat near the exit as well.
6. If you are driving alone
Don't think that if you are in a car, you're safe. Windows should be up
and doors locked even when driving to avoid unwanted passengers at
intersections. When you are walking to your car, always have your keys
ready, so that you can quickly get into your car.
But don't just get in right away. Always check your car before entering,
especially the back, for any intruders.
7. Never leave your car door unlocked
Even if it means for one minute to drop something off in the mailbox
that's a few feet away. Attackers have
been known to lie in wait for such an opportunity.
8. Be careful in parking lots
Always be alert in parking lots, especially when it's dark. Ask someone to
escort you to your car. Between cars and inside cars, it's easy for
someone to hide and wait until an unalert person comes along.
9. If you are travelling by taxi
Always check the identification of the driver (usually located near the
visor) and ensure that it matches the driver. Once inside, don't sit
behind the driver as it may be easy for the driver to lock the rear
passenger door. Always choose the adjacent seat .
In addition, avoid flagging taxis.
Always order taxis so the driver can be traced if something happens.
10. Don't use the walkman
If you're used to listening to your walkman while outside, drop this
habit, especially in isolated areas. With your walkman on, you cannot hear
the approach of a possible attacker.
11. Note "safe houses" along your
route
Mentally note houses at intervals on each route you take that can be used
as "safe houses" if you are attacked, such as shops or houses
that you know to be occupied by a friend or acquaintance.
12. When you make a call from a phone booth
After dialling the number you wish to call always turn around so that you
have your back to the phone and may see who or what is coming your way.
You will then be able to tell the person to whom you are speaking that you
may be in trouble and you may be able to use the weight of the phone as a
weapon. The door of a telephone box could be used to wedge in the limbs of
the attacker.
13. Do not open the door of your home
without checking
DO NOT open the door to your home without first checking from a window,
peephole or by asking and verifying who it is. Instruct children to do the
same.
14. Report any suspicious activity around
your home
If you see people loitering on the streets near your house, call the
police on a non emergency number and report it.
15. Invest in a cell phone
This is an invaluable safety device. Keep it with you at all times and
keep emergency numbers on it. Also, keep it next to your bed before you go
to bed at night. Cell phones were first popularized by women as a security
device, business people came later.
16. Parking tips
Avoid parking in areas that are not well lit. Where possible, park close
to a school or work entrance or in a parking garage that has an attendant.
If you see a suspicious person approaching or hanging around near your
parked car, turn around and go back to an area where there are other
people. Try to get an escort to your car through the campus or job
security or local police.
17. Tell others about your whereabouts
Parents, spouses and friends should know where you are going and when you
will be back, so that your absence will be noticed. Arrange a call in
system with a friend if you live alone, whereby you call when you arrive
home.
18. Trust your instincts
If you are walking somewhere and feel strange or scared, don't ignore this
feeling. Take extra precautions by walking a little faster to get to a
more populated or well-lit area or change the route you've been driving
on.
19. If you think you are being followed,
change your route and activity.
You can cross the street, change directions, or enter a populated building
or store. Do whatever is necessary to avoid being alone with the person
who is following you. Inform a police officer or security official about
the follower.
20. Attract attention if you are in a
dangerous situation.
Get others' to pay attention to what's happening to you if you are under
attack or being harassed. You can alert others by honking a car horn or
loudly describing what is happening.
21. NEVER admit that you are alone
If someone calls your home and asks if you are alone, NEVER admit it. Ask
who the caller is. If they refuse to identify themselves, calmly hangup.
Keep the radio on in the house so that callers will get the impression
that others are in the home too. Instruct children to do the same when
they pick up the phone.
22. Obscene phone calls
If you receive an obscene call or a crank call, do not talk to the caller.
Hang up if the caller doesn't say anything, or as soon as s/he shouts
obscenities. Hang up the phone calmly and do not slam it down. Note down
the date and time of the calls. If they are persistent, inform local
police.
23. If you are a student
Avoid studying in isolated classrooms in parts of the college campus that
are not regularly patrolled by the school's security officers.
24. In large buildings take the elevator,
not the stairwell
Stairwells are usually quiet and dark. Most people take the elevator. But
if someone creepy gets on, don't hesitate to get off at the same time. Or,
if someone is already on the elevator who you feel strange about, do not
get on and wait for the next elevator.
Source:
Islamic Human Rights Commission
http://www.ihrc.org/
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