| Punitive Domestic Violence
Against Women
Honour killings are but an extreme form of
violence against women which appears to be approved by wide sections of
society in Pakistan and is ignored by the state. Much of domestic violence
in Pakistan is meted out to women in a habitual manner, arising from a
male conviction that women deserve no other treatment. However, some
violence is deliberate and punitive, intended to punish a woman for
perceived insubordination which translates into an unpardonable
transgression of a family or tribal norm. Sabira Khan, married at 16 to a
man more than twice her age, was shortly after her wedding in 1991 told by
her husband that she must never see her family again. When in December
1993 she tried to break this rule, he and his mother poured kerosene over
her and set her on fire, though she was three months pregnant. Despite 60%
burns she survived, badly scarred. Many operations later, she still needs
restorative surgery to ears and eyes. She has fought since her husband's
attack to bring charges against him - so far in vain. The Magistrate in
Jhelum upheld her husband's argument that Sabira was insane and had set
herself on fire. An appeal is pending in the Rawalpindi High Court bench.
The annual report for 1998 of the HRCP
states bluntly: "Woman's subordination remained so routine by custom
and traditions, and even putatively by religion, that much of the endemic
domestic violence against her was considered normal behaviour. ...
Domestic violence was common. A sample survey showed 82% of women in rural
Punjab feared violence resulting from husbands' displeasure over minor
matters; in the most developed urban areas 52% admitted being beaten by
husbands... Burning by husbands and/or in-laws remained one extreme and
widely occurring form of violence in Punjab. The reported cases of 1998 in
and around Lahore alone numbered 282, only a minority (35%) of whom
survived. The official claim of deaths from burning [made by the minister
for the interior before parliament] was 59 in Punjab, 71 in Sindh and one
in NWFP." 41 The survey found that more than two-thirds of
both males and females considered disobedience a sufficient reason for
beating. It also established that women in paid employment who had thus
gained a degree of independence were more liable to physical abuse than
women doing unpaid labour.
Shahnaz Bokhari of the Progressive Women's
Association in Islamabad told Amnesty International that since March 1994,
when the organization was set up, it monitored 1,600 cases of women burned
in their homes in the twin-cities of Rawalpindi and Islamabad alone. These
are only reported cases whereas a large number of such cases must be
assumed never to be made public - many women even in a big city never make
it to the hospital. Shahnaz Bokhari said that most of the women have high
degrees burns and that increasingly victims include unmarried girls and
women seeking education and employment, apparently slipping from male
control. The high mortality rate also reflects the lack of knowledge of
first aid and of equipment. The twin cities Rawalpindi and Islamabad only
has two hospitals with small burns units, while other hospitals lack
facilities and often have highly infectious environments.
Police, if they register a complaint at
all, often accept bribes, then manipulate evidence and use sections of the
penal code carrying lower penalties. They usually accept husbands' claims
that the stove burst was accidental - but as Shahnaz Bokhari noted,
"Why are the victims always young wives, when in big families other
and older women often do the cooking? Why does in an extended family,
where there are always people around, nobody notice the 'accident' till it
is too late? Why are the stoves that are supposed to have burst never
found?"
Courts, too, frequently side with the
offenders and utilize the slightest element of doubt to acquit offenders.
Due to social pressure, witnesses rarely come forward, and the victims
assuming that they will be cured do not wish to charge family members they
have to return to or who may make life difficult for their children.
Declarations made by women on their deathbeds have been challenged when
slight discrepancies are found which may be due to the dying women's pain
and distress. Parents often do not pursue the cases of their daughters
burned to death as they have little hope of succeeding. Shahnaz Bokhari
reported that of the 60 cases brought to prosecution (out of 1,600
recorded cases), only two led to convictions. Even when guilt is
established, the law of Qisas and Diyat (see below) facilitates compromise
and protects the perpetrators from punishment.
In February 1999, Amnesty International
delegates visited a young 17 or 18-year-old woman in the Liaqat Medical
College Hospital in Hyderabad; she had suffered 60% burns and was quietly
whimpering and gasping for breath as her mother sat by her side and
stroked her hair. The mother said the young woman's dupatta (scarf) had
caught fire and the fire spread quickly over her back and entire body. Her
father was choking back tears as he was aware that his daughter was dying.
He said that she claimed to be married but was unable to show them her
husband or the nikahnama (marriage certificate). The doctor attending to
the dying woman said she was about six months pregnant. The
"accident" had occurred when her pregnancy had become visible.
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No one shall be subjected to
torture or to cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment.
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Universal Declaration of Human Rights, Article 5
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Given the close link between a woman's
conformity to customary norms of chastity and the honour of family or
tribe, insulting or humiliating women is an easy way to inflict insult to
their families or tribes. Women may thus become the victims of punitive
violence the intended aim of which is someone else, a man of their family
or their family as a whole. This is already evident in verbal conflicts.
Insults between men in a brawl usually take the form of slurs against the
chastity of their mothers, sisters or daughters.
This equation is not lost on men seeking
revenge against other men or families, leading to soaring instances of
public sexual humiliation of women. In its annual report for 1998, the
Human Rights Commission of Pakistan lists several of the 54 cases of women
being publicly stripped and dragged through the streets in the Punjab
reported in Lahore newspapers in the first 10 months of 1998. On 3 July
1998, a big landlord in Chak 15 near Multan along with his men raided the
home of Allah Wasaya, molested three women of the family and forced them
to walk naked through the village in punishment for a villager not
agreeing to vacate a piece of land desired by the landlord.
The link between honour issues and the
perception of women as the property of men is manifest in the following
case reported by the HRCP: "Mohammad Ramzan of Maisli had a suspicion
that his son-in-law was planning to divorce his daughter to marry
...[another woman]. So one day in August [1998] he and five of his men
lifted Mohammad Ramzan's daughter, stripped her, tarred her face black,
put garland of shoes round her neck and paraded her through the village
before returning her home."42 Since the woman had passed
into the 'possession' of her husband, Ramzan could, by humiliating her,
undermine his son-in-law's honour. The fact that she was his daughter does
not appear to have played any role in this decision, nor any recognition
that women have an identify and rights of their own.

41
The State of Human Rights in 1998, 1999, p.216 and p.10.
42
The State of Human Rights in 1998, 1999, p. 221
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